Straight Male Friend – SNL
The Benefits of Having a Straight Male Friend as a Gay Man
As a gay man, I have always had a lot of straight female friends. I love my girlies, but let’s be honest, they can be a lot to handle, both financially and emotionally. That’s when I discovered the beauty of having a straight male friend.
Low-Effort, Low-Stakes Relationship
A straight male friend is a low-effort, low-stakes relationship that requires no emotional commitment or financial investment. Unlike my female friends who often expect me to be there for them emotionally, my straight male friend is there for the fun and companionship without any drama.
Whether it’s playing video games or grabbing a beer, there’s no pressure to constantly check in or be available. We can hang out as little or as much as we want, and it won’t affect the friendship at all. It’s a refreshing change from the high-maintenance relationships I have with my female friends.
No Emotional Baggage
One of the best things about having a straight male friend is that he’ll never bring me into his emotional baggage. While my female friends often rely on me for emotional support, my straight male friend keeps things light and easy. Even if he’s going through a tough time, he won’t burden me with his problems.
For example, when my straight male friend mentioned that his dad had passed away, he quickly brushed it off and suggested we go get some wings. While it may seem insensitive to some, I appreciate the fact that he doesn’t expect me to be his therapist. It allows me to have a break from the emotional demands of my other friendships.
Honest Curiosity
While my straight male friend may not understand everything about being gay, there’s something sweet about his honest curiosity. He may ask blunt questions about my sex life or what it’s like to be gay, but it’s not out of malice or judgment. He genuinely wants to understand and learn from my experiences.
It’s refreshing to have someone who is open-minded and willing to have conversations about sexuality without any awkwardness. It helps break down barriers and fosters a deeper understanding between us.
No Deep Connection, No Problem
Does my straight male friend provide the same deep emotional connection that I have with my female friends? No. Does he even know my last name? No. But that’s the beauty of it. Our friendship is casual and uncomplicated.
There’s no pressure to share our deepest secrets or have long heart-to-heart conversations. We can simply enjoy each other’s company without any expectations. It’s a refreshing change from the intensity of my other friendships.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. Can a straight male friend replace the emotional support I get from my female friends?
No, a straight male friend cannot replace the emotional support you get from your female friends. While they can provide a different perspective and offer a break from emotional demands, it’s important to have a diverse support system that includes friends of all genders.
2. Is it okay for my straight male friend to ask personal questions about my sexuality?
It depends on your comfort level and the nature of your friendship. If you feel comfortable discussing your sexuality and answering questions, then it’s okay. However, if you find the questions invasive or uncomfortable, it’s important to communicate your boundaries and let your friend know.
3. Can a straight male friend provide the same level of companionship as a gay male friend?
While a straight male friend can provide companionship and friendship, they may not fully understand the unique experiences and challenges that come with being gay. It’s important to have friends who can relate to your experiences and provide support specific to your identity.
4. How can I find a straight male friend?
Finding a straight male friend is similar to finding any other friend. Engage in activities and hobbies that interest you, join clubs or organizations, and be open to meeting new people. Building friendships takes time and effort, so be patient and open-minded.
5. Can a straight male friend be supportive of LGBTQ+ issues?
Yes, a straight male friend can be supportive of LGBTQ+ issues. Many straight men are allies and advocates for LGBTQ+ rights. However, it’s important to have open and honest conversations about your expectations and ensure that your friend is respectful and understanding of your experiences.
In conclusion, having a straight male friend as a gay man can provide a refreshing break from the emotional demands of other friendships. It offers a low-effort, low-stakes relationship that allows for casual companionship without any drama. While it may not replace the deep connections I have with my female friends or gay male friends, it offers a unique dynamic that can be valuable and enjoyable.
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Straight male friend might not even know your first name
He must love chicken wings
We marry those straight men.😂😮😅😢
There was not one fabricated fact in this entire sketch.
travis kelce??
This is one of the best skits SNL has produced in years. Travis Kelce has some of the most effortless comic timing I've ever seen from a celeb/athlete guest host, he should seriously consider comedy when he's done with the sports stuff.
1:16 "Three straight male friends may result in a trip to Atlantic City"
Not funny
I sent this to my straight male friend…he didn't bother to watch it 😭
The "faster than me" comment inciting drama really hit home.
This is hilarious!😂
Plot twist, the actor playing the straight guy is gay and the actor playin the gay guy is straight.
unfunny
Easy breezy beautiful … friendship with Bowen haha 😂
Who were the writers of this skit I want their names because this is hilarious and I want to follow more of their work. Do tell!
Taylor's boyfriend is a douche
So even in the scenario where guys are a better friend – you have to make the guy a loser?
I feel Travis is the Official Straight Male friend of the LGBT community.
On the straight side of this type of friendship. The extended travel part really hit me because my buddy Chandler literally joined the Peacecorp and my attitude is still “oh, she will be back to hang. It’s only 2 years.” I do miss her though haha
"He's honestly curious" is how I explain a lot of my relationships.
Love me some gaysian comedians
Am a gay man whose friends are all straight guys. None of them know my birthday, but I feel closer to them than my own family members. Can confirm this is 100% accurate.
Bro i havent talked to my best friend in 6 months, in that 6 months i have almost died, gotten sober, lost 70 lbs, and last week, when i got on dragon ball fighterz with him, he said "yo, thats whats up dog, which stage u want?" there is honestly something beautiful about that. I know if i needed to talk, he would listen as much as i needed, but he knew that i was sick of talking, and didnt want to have to talk about it anymore, and theres something beautiful about that.
as a lesbian, i laughed so hard at the "gay women have known about it for years" bit xD
It is true, even though not to such an extreme
That man has transcended wiggerdom and integrated it it entirely into his being.
Why did they have that guy talk black?
Im straight. My best friend of 20 years is straight also. After about 15+ years he told me his mom and dad separated bc of X reasons when he was 7. He got a bit emotional, called himself a pussy, apologized and bought me some beer. Since then we havent talked about it at all. It's sad in many ways, cause we would like to get stuff out of our chest, but we've just been wired differently from childhood
The "I bet I am faster then you" thing is true AF. Once at work I said I could run a mile in under 7 minutes and didn't even challenge anyone but all my male coworkers started making bets to see if I could or not.
Thought it couldn't be me as gay dude, but then i realised i have a straight guy friend who only meets up once every few months but still calls me his best friend 💀☑️
Bowen Yang was finally in a funny SNL sketch, and he still wasn’t funny.
Who the fuck disliked the video, this is COMEDY GOLD
Hey Will Forte please please finish last man on earth I still watch over and over to this day I need it finished lol
Only thing I dont like about my gay friend was that he wasnt into strip clubs. My lesbian friend was up for that though.
This is the funniest thing I've seen out of SNL in years. I'm gay and have made straight guy friends over the years and it is EXACTLY like this. I do feel a little bad they don't feel like they can open up, but like I get it. I struggle opening up to other men too. So that's kind of a sad funny thing.
I need me a straight male friend
I legit grew up with this guy we even have the same sister from my mom's first marriage. And we're supposed to be best friends and he had his first kid like 3 years ago I seen the kid when he was like one and I haven't seen him since last week and I just went over and spent the day there and came back like nothing happened. It is what it is lol
Spot tf on!
Why is he talking like hes from the hood
Travis Kelce is 100% gay
That is how I thought about straight friends until they all came out to me a wanted to date me!
Doeds Travis Kelce have an acting experience? He's good
As a gay man I really enjoy the low maintenance company of straight guys. They are very undervalued
I have a gay friend I go way back with and it's funny how true this is.
I had to move out of state for a bit and whenever I would come back to visit it would be like we picked up where we left off and he would be blown away by it like it's genuinely something he's never seen before.
I guess gay men and straight women have a tough time doing that? Straight men are simple I suppose, all we think is "Well, I didn't have a problem with you when I left so I don't see why I should have a problem with you now" and boom all the thought needed, of course we still bois